To be loved is precious :)

Love is a precious gift from God. He loved all mankind, and so he gave up his life for our sake. In this precious Easteride, I want to share a few thoughts that cross my mind while reconciling what was done in the past. This is a blessed season to forgive our foes and forget the wrongs they have done to us.

The flowers up there represents the symbol of love, happiness, forgiveness and cheers. As fresh as they are, so should be the minds of the taker and receiver. To be loved by someone is a great and precious feeling. You will only realize the essence and importance of it, when you loose it at your faults. So to all you people out there who consider that the person you love can be ignored, I say NO. Those are the few people you need to give special attention and care. They look forward for simple appreciations from you..making sure you notice the small tiny details. I learnt it the hard way, but YES, I did learn it.

My mind was blocked with some other expectation, so I never really noticed anything other than that which was blocking my mind. It is still blocked with that one thing. But it is time I do not let my mind-block, block the rest of the happy things happening around me. I don't know whether it will happen this year, or next year or the year after that or never. But the mind-block will eventually go away from me I hope. It is hard for me to let it go, because it is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing for me now. But its sad that its not in my hands alone. I regret making certain decisions for myself. But those decisions were the need of the hour then. I've lost some beautiful years to it expecting more beautiful years in return in the future.

I learnt through the years that bereavement is never a solution for any problem. Just be yourself and fight it out. When things don't come your way, you just let them go, and grab hold of others which are already in your purview. This way, you are more happy and satisfied, or rather gratified I must say. Happy me....when?

1 month is already up and gone down. Still counting :-/