Tuesday, April 5, 2016

Mother Vs Mother




This is War! A conflict of thoughts, words, deeds, wishes and actions between two mothers. Had this been a situation between the intellectuals and sensible, a decision making would have been easy and effortless. The result of an argument between the intellectuals would have most likely reached a common consensus, with both parties getting a little bit of what each wanted, if not everything. But in this case, the rationale's fate is always failure and disappointment, while the irrational gets a clean sweep victory.

Every woman must foresee this warning - 'The mother and son will corner you one day'. Yet, without heeding much importance to it then, its fate to suffer in pain and agony today, and for the rest of the life. It's a war between the mothers, but which mother should be given preference this time? Is it the one who has already spent most of the years of her lifetime doing everything she wished for, or the one who has just begun her journey of motherhood.

A mother's heart is always full of desires and dreams for her child. Some dreams that she had probably been weaving ever since the conception of the little life in her womb. It is her unsaid right to want the best for her child. The best in everything! Sometimes a mother goes beyond her limits to make this happen for her little one. But ignoring these and having no respect to her wishes, is like questioning the motherhood of a mother. This is true in case of both the mother. But without understanding this simple concept of mutual agreement, one's heart's desires for her little one have been flushed down the drains. 

But she's a strong, wise and patient woman, who endures all faults of people against her to ensure the family is tight and together all the time. But this time, she was not alone. She was not the only one who was denied a fair share. And when someone tickles her right to motherhood, nothing can palliate the pain of crushing her dreams for her one and only piece of life. With teary eyes and heavy heart, this war has left a deep scar. A scar for life which is to stay for all eternity.

And who seems to be responsible for this? Seems like it is the Divine power of the Transcendent God.  The Transcendent God, who is the reason for the occurrence of many things in this world - known and unknown. It is convincing, if forces outside the universe dictate the working of certain things. But while you have a torch to lead the way, and are willing to point it in the wrong direction for whatever is your reasoning, it is not right to hold the Divine power responsible for your actions.

It's  time for the men to sensitize and realize which mother needs to be given preference, because "Family" is not about Blood. It's about who is willing to hold your hand when you need it the most!

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